
There was a song that came out a few years ago by Papa Roach with the lyrics,
" And our scars remind us that the past is real,
I tear my heart open just to feel."
I tear my heart open just to feel."
I got to thinking, do I really need this 9 inch scar to remind me that the past is real? Sometimes that part of my past consumes me, regardless if I've seen the scars or not. And then there are the scars that we can't see. The emotional scars on our hearts and our minds. We can't see those scars, but they are just as prominent and just as real.
Scars: (also called cicatrices) are areas of fibrous tissue that replace normal skin (or other tissue) after injury. A scar results from the biologic process of wound repair in the skin and other tissues of the body. Thus, scarring is a natural part of the healing process.
So by definition, we have to scar in order to heal. But in doing so, those scars remain a permanent fixture in our lives. We may be healed, but we will always have a constant reminder of our "injury." And sometimes that constant reminder is the hardest part.
Needless to say, I decided to tell my professor the truth; I was attacked by a polar bear while cross country skiing across the North Pole.
Scars: (also called cicatrices) are areas of fibrous tissue that replace normal skin (or other tissue) after injury. A scar results from the biologic process of wound repair in the skin and other tissues of the body. Thus, scarring is a natural part of the healing process.
So by definition, we have to scar in order to heal. But in doing so, those scars remain a permanent fixture in our lives. We may be healed, but we will always have a constant reminder of our "injury." And sometimes that constant reminder is the hardest part.
Needless to say, I decided to tell my professor the truth; I was attacked by a polar bear while cross country skiing across the North Pole.

5 comments:
I've always felt that everyone should be proud of their scars. A "I survived" kind of thing. That's why I always tell people I got the scar on my leg by jumping in front of a car that was going to hit defenseless children.
I used to make up stories about my scars also. I had to have stitches in my chin and I told the Doctor to put the fewest stitches possible so that I would have a bigger scar.
--Brian
Hey, I really do have a scar from a shark attack...but I think the truth is a better story....you are brave!
Your post reminded me of a poem that moms of cancer kids have passed around...thought I would share it.
I tell Pooper to be proud of his scars, he may not be winning any athletic awards or trophies, but his scars show that he has won something far more courageous...a battle with cancer.
The Littlest Soldiers
The medals on our chests
Are port-a-caths for meds
Helmets won't stay on
'cause no hair is on our heads.
Our weapons of destruction
We take every day
We fight the battle within us
While we struggle on to play.
We fight with honor and courage
No marine could do as well
We are only little children
Living in this hell.
So bring on the medals
The Purple Hearts of Wars
The Gold Cross, The Silver Star
To place upon our scars.
For We are the Children of Cancer
No one has fought so hard
But every day we struggle on
Our life is our reward.
Author: Cheryl Jagannathan
I didn't realize your scar was so long.
I loved how this post ended! :)
You are so thoughtful in the things your write. I love to read your thoughts-but it makes me miss you!! Hope all is well!
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